Sitting in the Harsh Discomfort — Together

A Statement to Our Community

Sitting in the Harsh Discomfort — Together

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I think we can all agree that the question “how are you?” carries two distinct layers right

now: how you are as you move through your daily life, and how you are being affected by

what is unfolding on the world stage. These two layers are not separate, and I have had

to acknowledge that I underestimated just how deeply the latter reaches into the former.

Some of us are in disbelief that the information revealed in the Epstein files has been so

easily dismissed by those in power. Others are not surprised — because it simply affirms

what we already know about the systems and structures that govern our society.

The response from those in power — to dismiss and disbelieve survivors — is a stark

reminder that the systems enabling and excusing sexual assault against children, youth,

and adults are thriving with far too few safeguards. When all someone in power has to

do is say “no, I didn’t” to make an accusation disappear, how can any survivor feel truly

heard, believed, or valued?

In this climate, survivors have little to no incentive to come forward. I am deeply moved

by the accounts of Epstein’s victims — how many times they have had to retell their

stories just to take one small step toward being believed. Every retelling is another act of

re-traumatization. That is not justice. That is not healing.

In moments when hope feels far away, please know: we are here. We believe you. We are committed to supporting your journey toward healing and autonomy. Our DOVE family is sending love to every member of this community. Please do not hesitate to reach out.

We will be providing some spaces in the next few months for discussions, healing

silence, and shared understanding.  This will be on our website, and follow us on social

media. www.vashondoveproject.org

With care and solidarity,

Heidi Jackson

Executive Director, The DOVE Project